tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post4419591117047085627..comments2024-02-25T02:23:04.598-08:00Comments on Conversation with the Muses with Tricia Saroya: Some thoughtsConversations with the Museshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05173567901573846951noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-11288552826835849362012-11-29T15:19:39.754-08:002012-11-29T15:19:39.754-08:00Hello treasure, im here at last. Oh i do hear you...Hello treasure, im here at last. Oh i do hear you and so know the feelings you are going through. That feeling of loneliness it is the strangest of creatures, though i too had my children to keep me company when I found myself alone! As others have said before, it does change. For me it turned around to be an amazing journey of finding self. Keep trying on those beautiful shoes, the more Ruthie Reddenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09544345949078281235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-57577936372579807772012-11-27T19:43:52.115-08:002012-11-27T19:43:52.115-08:00Tricia, I'm sorry I missed this one, but as I ...Tricia, I'm sorry I missed this one, but as I read this post and all the comments I feel there is little to say. What I do want to say is not positive in terms of relations with men for I have figured them out and there is not an equality in anything we do for we are different creatures and every word/deed we speak/do means something different to them...same words, different meanings and Lady of the Woodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06394158858295264012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-2580303310727458112012-11-19T17:14:04.744-08:002012-11-19T17:14:04.744-08:00Tricia....I know exactly how you feel except that ...Tricia....I know exactly how you feel except that I have two children who were an immense help at times when I was going through my divorce...but the nights were the hardest...even after a horrible marriage I thought I would welcome the quiet but at first it was hard..then I began to enjoy the night quiet...I read, I exercised..I went to the movies alone... I began to really enjoy being by myselfLindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13937590526067941082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-44599073546807474242012-11-01T15:22:04.217-07:002012-11-01T15:22:04.217-07:00Darling Tricia, I am sitting at my desk with tears...Darling Tricia, I am sitting at my desk with tears rolling down my cheeks. I admire your strength in sharing your innermost fears and heartache. I find myself resonating with so much of what you have written here, although I am at a crossroads of which direction to take next in my personal life. I believe that a soul mate is someone who holds up a mirror to us, to help us to bring out those Carousel Dreamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12872165649030471749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-28982800923008174342012-10-31T21:45:48.879-07:002012-10-31T21:45:48.879-07:00Oh sweet Tricia, it makes my heart ache too hear y...Oh sweet Tricia, it makes my heart ache too hear you are still in so much pain. The thing is, there really isn't a way for you to be sure of love and commitment the next time. I want you to understand this, read your self help books and call me anytime but I'm telling you this, IT WAS NOT YOU who ended the relationship. You were broad sided and it left you in a puddle. It's like when Lily's Lacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01744053694987918067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-21040146826429523682012-10-30T17:18:13.616-07:002012-10-30T17:18:13.616-07:00My Dear Friend... what a transparent and vulnerabl...My Dear Friend... what a transparent and vulnerable, yet thought provoking Post you have written. You are keeping it Real as always. I have found, in ANY Relationship, there has to be a delicate balance of Togetherness and Apartness. Because there are always Seasons in every Relationship we enter into and ebbs & flows of when or how long the Togetherness portions are or how it all will Bohemianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03743017084098726581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-2197832540437595672012-10-28T16:30:07.469-07:002012-10-28T16:30:07.469-07:00“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let...“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, EvenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-23611406362147734752012-10-28T16:29:09.253-07:002012-10-28T16:29:09.253-07:00Mmmmm, I think the considerations you are musing u...Mmmmm, I think the considerations you are musing upon are worthy indeed. To be aware is everything. Does that mean there is an end game and somewhere to "Get to"? I don't think so... it is the intention and practice of awareness that seems to cause the veils to drift away...will you do the work and clear it all up? Probably not. Can you? Can any of us? I am not pessimistic in this Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-58613061665125104252012-10-28T12:29:06.762-07:002012-10-28T12:29:06.762-07:00Hello, we dont know each other,, I know you a bit ...Hello, we dont know each other,, I know you a bit more then you know me since I have been reading your amazing Blog for some time now. I stare at the pics savoring all the textures, colors, flight and fancy. I also have felt your struggle and your heart ache. In that, as women, or spiritual beings trying to sort out this human experience we know each other well.<br />We all experience heart ache,Kathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05603832027277502882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-26710531909473171272012-10-25T16:40:49.871-07:002012-10-25T16:40:49.871-07:00Oh sweet girl... I wish I could tell you the answe...Oh sweet girl... I wish I could tell you the answers. But, even though Larry & I have been together 42 (OMG how did the time fly so quickly?) I find myself wondering some of the same thoughts. Not the being alone part(& I can tell you that I think you are doing amazingly well as I'd be terrified. I can only imagine your perplexity at "what next". But, I think we just Charlenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07371413656909981870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-55770040091481149462012-10-24T15:05:28.403-07:002012-10-24T15:05:28.403-07:00I was lonely in elementary school and oh I remembe...I was lonely in elementary school and oh I remember it well. I had know one to talk to but soon reallized that I should pick myself up and smile and a new friend would come alone soon. I had to be the best person that I could be.<br /><br />You ae a true person and are the best that you can be. I love the photos...Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10907603427328148580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-37040632937989960332012-10-23T12:27:13.688-07:002012-10-23T12:27:13.688-07:00Oh my, reading this has given me a perspective on ...Oh my, reading this has given me a perspective on something I am seriously struggling with. I have described my marriage often as the "silence is deafening" and yet here I am -- I married young and am I staying because I do not know if I know how to be alone? I am saving this post link to my desktop shortcuts as I think I may have more pondering to do on this path. <br /><br />You are amaggiegracecreateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12475293299150321997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-5489380728789636922012-10-23T06:22:00.834-07:002012-10-23T06:22:00.834-07:00First, I have to say - love the pictures as well. ...First, I have to say - love the pictures as well. Then, Oh I hear ya honey. I guess my comment is really take time to breath in and out(took me about 6 years.) And as far as trying to be a half of any relationship - I would have to say - YOU ARE VERY TALENTED AND IMPORTANT. I am not yelling at you, just don't ever forget that part. If someone enhances what is best in you, there will Lady Locusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12661298925602199106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-40457942177056783922012-10-22T22:48:28.562-07:002012-10-22T22:48:28.562-07:00My Darling Darling Thelma!!! Ohhh, do I remember t...My Darling Darling Thelma!!! Ohhh, do I remember that feeling of aloneness... altho' I have a lovely child, the longing for a partner, a GOOD Partner, was something that eluded me for many many moons! Like 18 years??? Probably the duration of the time that you were IN relationship, I was, for the most part, OUT>>>> oft-times in relationship and feeling as lonely as if I were Little Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11256122637846013165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-581250566040511217.post-89054558134104455952012-10-22T22:03:22.319-07:002012-10-22T22:03:22.319-07:00Hello, Tricia
I am sorry for your loss of togethe...Hello, Tricia<br /> I am sorry for your loss of togetherness you were experiencing. And yes, I agree we are raised on faeire tales to the extent we believe marriage is going to be one long romance where we each love each other forever. How wrong I was! I think the melding of two souls in a marriage begins blissfully enough. The problem with mine was he adored other women, sometimes above A Magical Whimsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15473478545205572098noreply@blogger.com